tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-331991072429261447.post2339472598349633005..comments2013-11-23T23:01:30.155-08:00Comments on Ala Carte Baby: More home study stuff etc.Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14754815992773985022noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-331991072429261447.post-86744645900557371242012-10-25T16:34:37.259-07:002012-10-25T16:34:37.259-07:00We had to sign a copy of ours to state it was accu...We had to sign a copy of ours to state it was accurate. They had made minor errors like they called me a physical therapist instead of an occupational therapist. I think there were a few other things that were not accurate. They also dwelled on a few things like my moms spinal cord injury. We were supposed to cross out and edit anything that wasn't accurate prior to signing. Just between you me and your 14 readers. I didn't make any edits. I signed it and sent it back. I know the judge prior to finalization at least skimmed it because she knew where I worked and knew DH was a marathon runner. TTABabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10448579844692674801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-331991072429261447.post-32556750242090726272012-10-24T20:18:25.930-07:002012-10-24T20:18:25.930-07:00I love you. <3
For real, my heart was in my th...I love you. <3<br /><br />For real, my heart was in my throat for a second when you said you were matched, and then I was disappointed when you said you were kidding. MEANIE!!!<br /><br />Anyway, so funny that you mention your first home study report. We found the same thing to be true of ours (which we had done through our agency-- but didn't use them for the actual adoption). I found a lot of misconceptions/misunderstandings in ours and it irked me to no end. While in the end, you're right, it doesn't matter... it still bothers me that we were misrepresented on paper.<br /><br />It's so important to us to have everything be accurate. If we had to spend HOURS writing up our autobiographies and spend HOURS getting all the required documents in order, the very least that our social worker could have and should have done, was to accurately write down what we said to him. Some of the things just bothered me because if someone in my family read it (which they wouldn't), I'd have to explain things to them and it was all from our SW not hearing/writing down what we said.<br /><br />So I hear you on that. You're definitely not alone. I wish they would have given us a chance to preview it and tell them if everything was correct. And don't even get me started on the grammatical errors!!!<br /><br />I'm glad you're back to blogging. Yours is one of my absolute favorites to read!! You bring me joy!<br />:-)Cat's Litterboxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15383480756748575738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-331991072429261447.post-32455506974257140122012-10-24T11:01:47.557-07:002012-10-24T11:01:47.557-07:00Yah...that was a cruel joke! :P
That's craz...Yah...that was a cruel joke! :P <br /><br />That's crazy that you never got to see your homestudy until now! Our agency has us read over it and sign it - we don't sign it until any concerns we might have about it are addressed.<br /><br />Hope this homestudy is better!Rhondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07549803190101959114noreply@blogger.com